I’m Gal, and I’m on a quest to find a compassionate personal assistant (PA) who can join me on my unique journey. Here’s a more detailed glimpse into my world:
1. My Labels and Strengths:
Beyond autism, ADHD, and fibromyalgia, I wear other labels—each contributing to my rich tapestry of experiences.
When I have the right support, I’m highly independent—a reflection of what was once termed “high-functioning autism.”
However, fatigue, stiffness, and mobility difficulties sometimes hinder me.
2 Essential Tasks and Beyond:
Nutrition: Alongside organizing food shops and assisting with meal preparation (including smoothie making), I’m a fan of nutrient-packed blends that keep me going!
Hygiene: Prompting and assistance with personal care, including nail care.
Housekeeping: Tidying up, organizing, vacuuming, washing up, changing bedding (my cozy flat), and managing laundry.
Creative Endeavors: I’m passionate about Twitch (a gaming platform) and creative projects like writing and digital art. Help me set up, organize materials, and capture ideas.
3. Navigating Social Waters:
Relationships: I’d appreciate social support in finding and engaging with local groups—perhaps gaming cafes or even martial arts classes. Initial visits can be daunting, so your presence would boost my confidence.
Community Outings: As someone with social anxiety, I need assistance with appointments, shopping, and getting around. Having a driver (or support in a taxi) would be fantastic. I also enjoy quiet walks with my cat in a dog-free park.
4. Holistic Well-Being:
Therapeutic Routines: Prompting and support for therapeutic activities (such as breathing exercises) to maintain healthy routines. Your presence during distressing moments would be invaluable.
Understanding Autism: My recent diagnosis means I’m still exploring what it means. I seek someone who communicates openly and understands the nuances of autism.
Breaking Down Defenses: Over the years, I’ve developed defense mechanisms due to various traumatic experiences. I need a patient and kind soul who can see beyond these traits and help me dismantle unnecessary barriers.
5. Trust and Open Communication:
Building trust is essential—I want someone who genuinely gets to know me and allows me to be myself.
Your willingness to explore my neurodiverse traits and support me in leading a more pleasant life means the world to me.
Rate:
I offer £18 per hour for your invaluable assistance.
If you’re empathetic, patient, and ready to make a positive impact, let’s connect. The number of PAs doesn’t matter; one caring soul can make all the difference.
Warm regards, Gal